In some instances, people that have made a lot of impact in your life are those that criticized and persecuted you. They are used by God to push you to focus and grow, to be wise and patient, to increase in grace and humility.
If you become obsessed with calling them ‘haters’ and exposing them, you will abort your chance for growth. Believe that all things (even the bad) are working for good. Trust that a loving Father wouldn’t allow them without a reason and praise Him and His wisdom instead.
Nancy Njoroge is an Administrator for Health and Welfare at KPIUSA